In Loving Memory

A TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED HUSBAND (EBE MMI)

Fourty Years ago, a tall, handsome young man with a heavy beard and stylish afro walked up to me with all the confidence in the world and made a statement:

“I LOVE YOU AND I WANT YOU TO BE MY WIFE’”

These words shocked and surprise me, a young girl, just twenty two, and about to start General Nursing Training at St. Luke’s Hospital. I shrugged it off- the exuberance of youth must be strong with this man, I told myself. Yet, he meant those words. They were tested strenuously by our families- nuclear and extended and by our friends. Four years, we spent in courtship. We learned about each other; strengths, weakness, goals, hopes and dreams. After these four years of courtship and discovery, those words held weight. The proposal was a proposal no longer on April 2nd, 1988.

This young man, hair a touch shorter, face a bit smoother would before our family, friends and our villages, take me as his wife. He would promise to build a life with me and I would promise to uphold him. 24 days later, the courts would see us make our final steps from mere friends to life partner. All the while his words filled my ears. Those eleven words would send me down a journey spanning 36 years, 4 months, 3 children, 2 chieftaincies, a pastoral ordination and one home. He was the bone of my bone and the flesh of my flesh. By the grace of God on our lives and marriages, every day, even down to the second, we waxed stronger.

You were my Godgiven husband who obeyed the instruction of the bible in Genesis 2:24. You left your parents and cleaved to me. We were joined together, and lived not as two tenants under the same roof. We became one flesh. We became one mind. (IKEMESIT)

Ebe, your were and still remain my best friend, my closest confidant. From the first day you spoke those eleven words, until your very last day, you were my companion, and I hope I was the same for you. You were the best father. You were so caring to our children and for that, I know God will bless you beyond anything the human mind can imagine.

To those on the outside, you seemed serious, strict, even harsh but I discovered differently. Deep within, beneath that exterior, you were kind, compassionate, and meek to a fault. When you believed in a course, you gave everything you had to accomplish it. You were a goal oriented and disciplined man, who made the sky a stepping stone to greater heights.   The Bible says in Mark 12:30-31 “'and thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.”

My dear husband loved the Lord, his God not just with all his heart, but with all he had. He withheld nothing. Such was his love for God, combined with a thirst for knowledge that he would enroll us in Bible Colleges to learn of the dictates and precepts of the Lord, so we may grow, and so he could teach all he encountered. He loved his neighbors more than he loved himself. He was committed to giving his time, and his funding to his people. He would help anyway he could and give anything he could, sometimes, even things he could not at that moment.

Ebe, I can boldly say you lived a selfless life, and this made you Christ like. You fought the good fight and you have won the race. Now, you are crowned in glory, and with our Father resting. I know our parting is temporary, and in due time, we will meet to part no more. Until that day comes, I hope you are resting well, and I know you are watching over me, and our children

Thank you for saying those eleven words, and starting this wonderful journey, and thank you for giving me a wonderful life, my sweet husband, confidant and friend.

With all my love, Nne

A TRIBUTE TO MY FATHER - A TRAILBLAZER AND MY FIRST LEADER

My father was unscripted, a living testament to the beauty of authenticity. You navigated life like a maverick, aware of the rules but unafraid to challenge them. You went to the United States to study pharmacy but faced with long years in a foreign land, you chose to study business administration so you could come back home. Fearless in every endeavour, you carried the face and heart of a lion, inspiring those around you to embrace their own courage.

Dad loved family with a ferocity that was nothing short of remarkable. You dedicated yourself to educating and uplifting an entire generation— brothers, sisters, nephews, nieces, cousins, and, most importantly, my brother, sister, and me. Many people are graduates, business owners and emerging thought leaders in their fields because of you. You made me love the news, politics and the world. As a kid, I juggled Cartoon Network in the morning with CNN at night. In many ways, I am me today largely because of You. You were not just our father; You were a father to many, a steadfast figure in the lives of countless individuals.

Your belief in the importance of family was a lesson I didn’t fully grasp until I began to build my own. Even at the end of your life, Your thoughts were rarely on yourself; instead, you poured your love and care into those You cherished, always seeking to lift others up. You wrote a history of your family to share with the world the time-honoured truths and values passed on to us by our ancestors.

My father loved hard work. One of your favourite quotes was “The only way to succeed in life is by hard work.” You instilled in all your children and those close to you a persistent work ethic and took no prisoners. Dad would never give up on a problem or issue until it was solved. You did not believe in handouts. If you wanted anything from him, you had to meet halfway by putting in the effort. Your face bore the scars of countless sleepless nights, endless meetings, many written and rewritten drafts and early morning and late night trips. Your colleagues had nothing but high praise for your diligence and dedication and always encouraged my siblings and me to emulate them. I am proud to say that we are upholding that creed.

You were a defender of the faith, drawing strength from your beliefs and embodying the wisdom of St. Augustine who once said "Faith is to believe what you do not see; the reward of that faith is to see what you believe.". Your faith was not just a part of you; it was the very foundation of your character, guiding you through life’s challenges and triumphs. You also promoted it unabashedly, building churches and growing the work of the Assemblies of God in Uruan, sponsoring missionaries, giving lavishly and personally sharing your faith with many. In your retirement, you joined the clergy with my mother, further entrenching your commitment to God and service to man.

Compassion radiated from you like sunlight breaking through clouds. Your heart was vast, big enough to hold everyone who sought solace in your presence. In your eyes, you could see the warmth of acceptance and understanding, a safe harbour for those weathering storms of their own.

Now, in the wake of your passing, there’s a void that resonates deeply within us. It's a Dad-filled chasm, one that echoes your laughter, your wisdom, and the lessons you imparted through your actions. You made space in our hearts not just with your words but through your unwavering example. Each memory of you serves as a reminder of the love you so freely gave, a love that transcended boundaries and embraced all.

As we carry your legacy forward, particularly for me as your heir apparent (as you loved to call me), we hold tight to the lessons you taught us about courage, compassion, and the power of family. My father was not just a man; he was a force of nature, a warrior whose spirit will forever be woven into the fabric of our lives. In honouring you, we find strength in each other and a resolve to live with the same reckless abandon and love that you so beautifully embodied.

Thank you, Daddy, for everything. You will always be our lion, guiding us with your spirit as we navigate the world without you. Your legacy will live on in the love we share and the lives we touch.

Ikemesit Okon Willie Effiong Esq. Your First Son

Tribute to My Lion King

Someone once told me that I am very pragmatic, loving, energetic, smart, intelligent, friendly, well-focused, determined, strong-willed, and results-oriented. When I reflected on how true this was, all I could think of was that I am a reflection of you. When we had a misunderstanding and I would tell you that I was just like you, your response would be, “Why don’t you take after your mother’s good traits?” The answer is because I am proudly "my father’s daughter". With your exemplary living, you have modeled what it means to be fierce yet humble, and for this reason, I call you MY LION KING.

You were a loving and caring father. Any choices you encouraged me to make were always from a standpoint of love. Your leadership taught me to be a goal getter and a high achiever. Your resilience ignited in me the commitment never to quit easily and to always fight to the end. You were always ready to fight my battles and see to it that I got the best treatment because you were my defender. Your bravery always prepared you to be at the frontline of every situation, and you never backed down from any challenge. The confidence you exude was seen by all, and no matter how little your effort was, you portrayed it with pride and excellence.

In your baritone voice, you would introduce yourself as “Chief Okon Willie Effiong,” and no matter what the problem was, you always found a solution. As an adult, it would annoy me when you still wanted to fight my battles, but it was always from a standpoint of love, and I have no regrets today because I'm my daddy’s baby girl.

I celebrate the life you lived because through your life, you exemplified the principles of leadership, confidence, resilience, excellence, and love. These values have shaped my life today. You are my LION KING, though you sleep, you will always live in me.

Your dearest daughter, Dr. Unyime Hamilton.

AN ELEGY TO MY FIRST ROLE MODEL

Time and again I wonder, will he never call? Call and say "my son, your father loves you o" When again will my phone ring? And that familiar voice come from the other end?

A grievous pity, how much I took for granted Shame I didn't understand, He just wanted to hear my voice And see me smile and laugh

Voice cracks whenever I try to say Say o say of my father's dying days Time marches unceasing And days lost can not be reclaimed

Days he will not see See of his son face and conquer Conquer the world, find love and joy Joy in success, joy in a family, joy as a father

Father, I will not wonder of the days you will not attend Days of great joy will no longer be filled with your hearty shouts Days of great pain will no longer be soothed by your calming words What we call the future, now must be faced without you

Yet to sit and wonder what will not be An insult it is, to what has been already instead we turn memories shared Of a great man. A man of great renown

Born of the night and so named Yet head filled with dreams as bright of the midday sun Through grit and hard work, did you achieve With determination and drive, a legacy built

A life well lived, with a million stories to share Words of advice and nuggets of wisdom Wisdom so great that all men could see Respect demanded from his mere demeanor

A boy I was when I would walk at his side Everywhere he went men could speak no ill He was stern and stoic, a quick temper when wronged But it made his fierce, and the strongest defender of any he loved

See how you cared always for me Always to see how your youngest was coping Many a night you would say you lay awake Awake and worried for your family

Your legacy we will uphold as you have taught Taught us to be strong, disciplined and excellent Driven by success, you wished us only the best Meticulous in all things, stubborn when your convictions were set

Much as it may have seem strange, it was love that inspired You inspire us to be the best and never the rest Of your type, there are one in a billion Of your soul, it will continue to shine in us

Rest well. Rest on. My Father. With Love Love your son , that resembles you most

A Tribute to Chief Okon Willie Effiong

I honor the life of my dear father-in-law, Chief Okon Willie Effiong. It’s difficult to find the words to express the depth of this loss, and even harder to imagine life without his steady presence. Chief Effiong was not just a man of status or title; he was a man of heart, a man of family, and someone whose love knew no bounds.

One of the fondest memories I hold dear is his incredible commitment to his grandchildren. He had a special way with them that no one else could replicate. Whether spending hours telling stories, playing with them, or simply sitting in quiet admiration as they grew, his love was always tangible. His joy was in their laughter, and his pride in their every accomplishment. Watching him with them was a beautiful reminder of what true love and dedication look like.

Chief Effiong also believed deeply in the power of dreams. He relentlessly encouraged his children to think big, pursue their dreams fearlessly, and achieve more than they ever thought possible. His words of encouragement and unwavering belief built a foundation of strength and courage that they carry with them today. I’ve witnessed firsthand how his guidance shaped them into strong, ambitious, and resilient individuals.

Reflecting on his life, it’s clear that his legacy will live on. His wisdom, kindness, and love continue to guide those he touched, even in his absence. He showed that family is everything, dreams are worth chasing, and love is the greatest gift one can give.

Rest in peace, Daddy. Your memory will forever be etched in my heart, and your spirit will live on in your children, grandchildren, and everyone whose life you impacted. Thank you for being a pillar of strength, for showing what it means to love without limits, and for believing in those you cherished.

A Tribute to My Father-in-Law

Today, I want to honor a man who profoundly impacted my life—my father-in-law. He was a man of strong principles, who held everyone, especially those he loved, to high standards. His strictness wasn’t always easy to understand, but over time, I realized it came from a place of deep care. He wanted the best for those around him, and his way of showing love was through pushing us to be our very best.

He was organized to the core, everything in its place, every detail considered. It was something I came to admire and, frankly, learn from. His bluntness could catch you off guard, but in that honesty, you always knew where you stood with him. He didn’t believe in pretense, only in the truth.

Though his ways were tough at times, they were always guided by love and a desire to see his family thrive. I am forever grateful for the lessons he taught me and the example he set. He shaped the lives of those around him with his strength, and we will carry that with us forever. Rest in peace, Daddy, you will always be missed, but never forgotten.

A Heart Broken Tribute To My Brother. It was very devastating and heart heart breaking when I got the news that you were no more. It's hard to believe but very shocking. I'm still struggling to accept the reality of the sad news because I didn't hear of any serious health challenge. It's painful, painful, painful.

I just want to thank God for your life. I thank God for having caused you to know and served him till your last day on earth. You were a very hard working man and remained a great man throughout your life time. I thank God that you died a fulfilled man. Tears are words the mouth can't say nor can the heart bear. Adieu brother, may the good Lord grant you peaceful rest in his Kingdom - Amen.

Sir E. E. Willie (KSJI /JP)

Tribute To The Best GrandPa Ever

We call you the best Grandpa in the whole wide world because you've given us everything we need since we were born. We loved going on morning walks with you every day at 5 am. You always treated us to banana smoothie with ice cream when we visited. You never liked celebrating birthdays, but you celebrated each one of ours. When we were sick, you took care of us and comforted us to sleep during our nap time. You taught us to walk safely to avoid getting hurt, and when mom and dad scolded us, you always stood up for us. We love you, Grandpa, because you always made us happy, never sad.

Rest well, and see you in heaven. Noah and Hadassah Hamilton.

A TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED UNCLE AND CHIEF: A SHINING FATHER FIGURE AND LEGACY OF LOVE, STRENGTH, AND PURPOSE – PART I

Today, I pay homage to an extraordinary life: Late Chief Okon Willie Effiong (1954 – 2024), my dearest Uncle and Chief or U&C, as I fondly used to call him, who has passed on, leaving behind a shining legacy that will continue to provide illumination, inspiration and direction for generations to come. He was a man who embodied the spirit of love, kindness, generosity, protection and guidance. His unwavering presence in my life from childhood through school days to adulthood provided support and direction. He was a rock, a shelter from life's storms, and a safe haven where I could always find security and comfort.

A Heart for Family

U&C’s love for family was unparalleled and unrelenting. He was the glue that held our family together, nurturing it and fostering an environment of warmth, unity, and understanding. In his household, there was no relational distinction: biological children, nephews, nieces, cousins, in-laws, house helps, servants, all were treated the same way by him and given equal privileges and opportunities.

A Champion of Valued Friendship

My U&C was not a man of many friends. Yet, for the few he had, he valued their relationships and his commitment to them was remarkably enduring and assuring as well as timeless and boundless. He had a unique ability to connect with people and providing support but his friendships were built on trust, loyalty, dignity and mutual respect.

A Sturdy Warrior with an Inspiring Heart of Gold

Most people saw U&C as a lion; yes, he was a tough person but full of compassion. He could easily shed tears when moved by a situation that evokes his sympathy. He was a strong warrior with a heart of gold. He was a force and a voice to reckon with wherever he found himself and faced life's challenges head-on without ever shying away from adversity. He was not the kind of a strong man that uses his position and influence to oppress or victimize others. This explains why in all his acquisitions and achievements in life, nobody can ever say: Chief Okon Willie took this or that from me by force. He was a strong man that keeps the gate and watches over his own, providing security and safety as well as protection and peace.

A Realist and Pragmatist with Unique Temperament

My uncle's approach to life was grounded in reality. He was a practical and pragmatic person who tackled problems with logical solutions. He was a life student of history, not philosophy. He was a work-work man, not a talk-talk man and as such, he was result oriented. Many might have been uncomfortable or even offended at his no-nonsense attitude and straightforward communication but these were not his weaknesses. Rather, they were sources of strength which earned him success, respect and admiration.

A True Community Spirit and Driver of Social Initiatives

My uncle had a true and strong community spirit, always looking for ways to contribute to the greater good. He originated local initiatives, supported community projects, participated in civic responsibilities, and drove positive change.

An Independent and Self-Reliant Sojourner

Despite his strong community spirit, my uncle was not a believer in crowds. Yes, he valued community, but he remained independent and was never swayed by the crowd. He maintained his independence, refusing to conform to popular opinion or follow the masses blindly. This is where some would have found him controversial or exerting. However, his self-reliance was inspiring, demonstrating that individuals could make a difference without needing to seek validation from others.

An Unbreakable Strong Will, Remarkable Determination and Irrepressible Purpose

My U&C was a shining example of strength, willpower, and purpose, facing challenges with unwavering determination and never backing down from a fight. This was the force that drove him both into troubles and out of troubles in the hands of both the Biafran soldiers and the Nigerian soldiers during the Nigerian Civil War of 1967 – 1970. He escaped death by the whisker and his raw determination to break barriers where others would not dare. With his sterling quality of strong will, sheer determination and daring courage, my Uncle and Chief scaled utmost heights to reach and secure for himself the legacy we celebrate today.

An Incredible Sense of Humor and Playful Spirit: A Hidden Treasure

Many knew my uncle as a very strict and serious-minded individual and that was true, but those of us fortunate enough to be close to him discovered a hidden treasure - his incredible sense of humor and playful spirit. Behind his critical gaze, he had a unique sense of humour and contagious way of moving people into near endless laughter and relieves. His wit and momentary playful teasing could light up a room, making even the toughest days brighter.

An Open Chapter of Transparency and Unpredictability

U&C lived an open life and harbored no hidden love or secret hatred for anyone. In fact, what most people considered secrets did not measure or pass for secrets where he stood and he was definitely not someone to gossip about people to. He was that authentic, unpretentious and unapologetic. His doors, even to his bathroom, were always open to welcome guests, symbolizing the boundless hospitality and open heartedness that defined him. But alongside this warmth and openness was an unpredictable nature that kept everyone on their toes. You never quite knew what next to expect, and that was the beauty of it. This intriguing blend of traits made interactions with him exhilarating and tact requiring.

His unpredictability was the only constant. In other words, he was predictably unpredictable. This trait of my U&C kept us all engaged and attentive. It challenged us to be our best selves, to think on our feet, and to expect the unexpected. Through his unique blend of spontaneity and sincerity, he inspired us to live more fully and authentically. This part of his legacy reminds us that true strength lies not in predictability, but in embracing life's uncertainties with courage and openness and this will continue to inspire us to cultivate meaningful connections and live life without pretenses.

Celebrating an Enduring Legacy of a Life Well Lived, Although in Tears

Although my uncle's passing will leave many stranded and broken at heart with unending tears, reflecting on his life is testamentary of the profound impact one person can have on the world. His impact will be felt in the lives of those he touched, the communities he served, and the faith he proclaimed. Yes, my crying over the sudden and unexpected demise of my U&C may never end and my broken heart over same may never mend, I am inspired by the fact that he walked this sod like a giant and shone like a diamond in this sky. It is those footprints he left in the sand of time and the light he shared to our world that I and others impacted by his life will continue to celebrate and allow to guide our pursuit of noble life and ideals.

This, a Text for Honour and Instruction

Finally, I have taken to write, not a letter to the dead, but a tribute in honour of the dead for the inspiration and instruction of the living, knowing that we who cry and mourn WILL SOMEDAY be cried and mourned over but the question then would be: how so and for what?

Adieu, My Father, Uncle and Chief!

HIS HONOUR ALFRED E. EKENG, ESQ

A tribute to a soldier of the Cross.

Your demise came as a shock to us, but we take solace that all the dead in Christ shall rise on the resurrection morning. We know that you are happy where you are, because no more sickness, nor pains, or trials of this world can be found in the city of pure gold.

You were a man of integrity, a prayerful man who raised your family in the fear of God. You love God sincerely and invested much on kingdom service seen by the churches you had built, you were a good adviser and an encourager of good things. One of the pillars in Assemblies of God church.

May God keep and protect the family you left behind till we meet to part no more.

We pray for pastor Mrs Esther Effiong the chief mourner and the children for God's grace and consolation from the Holy Spirit.

Adieu great servant of God.

From Rev Dr G.G.Uche and family Retired A.G. Supt Abuja Districts.

God only takes the best. With heavy heart, till we reunite again… you will always be on our mind. We love you our in-law. Rest in perfect peace Sir.

TRIBUTE TO PASTOR (CHIEF) OKON WILLIE EFFIONG, THE LION OF NUNG IKONO UFOK AND URUAN

With deep respect and admiration, I celebrate and honour the life of an extraordinary man, PASTOR OKON WILLIE EFFIONG, a beloved father, devoted husband, and esteemed professional. As a retired Assistant Director of the Central Bank of Nigeria, he served his nation with unparalleled dedication and integrity. But beyond his professional achievements, it is the love, wisdom, and strength he imparted to his family that truly defined his legacy.

To those who had the privilege of knowing him, he was a man of quiet strength and profound kindness. He led by example, showing us the importance of hard work, integrity, and compassion. His life was a testament to the power of humility and dedication, and his memory will continue to inspire us all.

As a father-in-law, Pastor Dr. Effiong was nothing short of exceptional. His unwavering support and guidance were constants in the lives of those he loved, providing a foundation of security and encouragement. His wisdom was a beacon, illuminating the path for his children and extended family, always pointing them toward the values of hard work, faith, and love.

To his beloved wife, he was the epitome of a great husband—faithful, loving, and ever-present. Their union was a testament to the beauty of partnership, built on mutual respect and deep affection. He was not just a partner in life, but a source of comfort, joy, and strength, embodying the true essence of a godly man.

In his later years, Pastor Dr. Effiong dedicated himself to the service of God, becoming a pillar of faith in his community. His spiritual leadership was marked by humility and a deep sense of purpose, as he guided others with the same care and wisdom that he bestowed upon his family.

As we remember Pastor Dr. Okon Willie Effiong, we celebrate a life well-lived, a legacy of love and service that will continue to inspire us. His memory will forever be cherished in our hearts, and his example will remain a guiding light for all who had the privilege of knowing him.

May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may we find comfort in the knowledge that his legacy lives on in the lives of those he touched.

Kingsley Asuquo Eyo

TRIBUTE TO A GREAT FAMILY FRIEND AND CONFIDANT

BY COLLINS AIMAUN, Esq, LLB, B.L, MBA, AICMC, PhD (CHAIRMAN OF GOVERNING COUNCIL, PHILOMATH UNIVERSITY, ABUJA AND FAMILY.

I write this tribute with the deepest sense of anguish of soul, spirit and body and in the greatest disbelief of the news of the sudden and untimely passage into glory of our beloved Chief Okon Willie Effiong.

His passage shook my family to the root. When I and my wife visited and prayed with our brother (Effiong) in the hospital in the very week of his death, we only saw a sign of agility and sense of response to the healing power of God; he started to do what he could not do before, walk about, talk eloquently and ate food as a show of turn around in his health and we went home rejoicing only to be told about three (3) days later that he has passed unto glory.

This devastating news was like a tsunami to me and my family, it looked as if our brother (Effiong) deliberately yielded to a palpable will of God from mortality to immortality in due season.

The Chronicle of the journey of relationship between my family and Effiong’s family is too verbose to be stated in this tribute; however, one or two cogent points must be highlighted which are of serious consequences in my life.

Chief & Chief (Mrs.) Effiong plotted and executed the marriage between me and my wife; we were joint worshippers in Assemblies of God Church at No. 111 Clegg Street, Surulere, Lagos, about the noblest and popular branch of Assemblies of God Church in Nigeria (then) with a population of over 4,000 worshippers. My father and mother-in-law were Deacon and Deaconess in the church and my father-in-law was also the National Men’s Ministry President of Assemblies of God Church, Nigeria. So that my Parent-in-laws’ family was prominent in the Church and I only joined the church as a student of the Nigerian Law School, Victoria Island and gave my helping hand as a Sunday School teacher in 1986/1987. Chief & Chief (Mrs.) Effiong were also Sunday School teachers and prominent members of the Assemblies of God Church in Lagos and by the occasion of our outstanding role in Sunday School, we became close. In spotting my wife with the background of her family; Chief and Mrs. Effiong took the project which I only muted to them without committal from a different angle and escalated it. They never gave me a breathing space. Went to convince my parents-in-law, pursue the introduction and ensured the marriage was accordingly executed in what look like a matrimonial coup.

After the marriage till today, they keenly followed up with the relationship that gave birth to Five (5) children who are doing well in life after their University education. I remember an incident of a trespass to us by a neighbor in our Lagos abode and the matter was taken to the Police Station at Ojuelegba, Mr. Effiong followed up with the matter at the police Station (everyday in the evening he returned from work as a top staff of the Central Bank of Nigeria) till the matter was resolved.

I recall as a young lawyer about 35years ago when issues came up in his office in Lagos, I took it upon myself and quashed the matter in court to the amazement of Chief & Chief (Mrs.) Effiong and I have severally handled their legal matters. Though Chief Willie Effiong is an American trained in all his University education, he lived a very humble and simple life that never show any ego and always ready to help every time duty calls. Chief & Chief (Mrs.) Effiong were best of friends and a deep family man, smiling all the time and cracking jokes each time we meet. To Chief Effiong I was his star; he felt I soar astronomically beyond his imagination especially in spiritual matters so he frequently calls me Pastor Aimuan.

Mr. Effiong’s untimely passage to glory is a big blow to all of us his friends and because of the devastating effect on my psyche, I kept away from his family for 2 weeks after the incident to recuperate myself from the devastating effect of the news.

To me up till now, the passage of Chief Willie Effiong is like a film or a tale by the moonlight. If death is like this, it is truly an enemy according to the word of God because it takes away your friends and loved ones in your very eyes helplessly.

Three (3) days prior to his death when we went to pray for him at the hospital, I ensured Mr. Effiong gave his life to Christ afresh. I was told the night previous to his passage, he called his staff in Uyo to go to his own church and pay all his tithes, made his ways right with all men and God; I am therefore sure without equivocation that Mr. Effiong has gone to be with The Lord in Heaven.

Adieu My Brother; Pastor (Chief) Okon Willie Effiong till we meet to part no more.

Collins A. Aimuan Esq., MBA, AICMC, PhD, Pro-Chancellor and Chairman of Governing Council, Philomath University, Abuja.

It's so difficult for me to write this about the beloved husband of my sister from another mother CHIEF OKON WILLIE EFFIONG.

The pursuit of education took me to the University of Lagos where I met Queen Esther your beloved wife a very intelligent, smart ,firm, God fearing woman. She was not only a friend but a sister. Everyone that knew/knows us can attest to this fact. The first impression I had of you was that of discipline, commitment ,closeness (BOND) with/to your family. The love you had for your wife was as clear as glass and that of the children was exceptional.

Today as I and my family bid you farewell, we pray that God's light shines you forth to your maker as you rest in perfect peace in the bossom of the Lord. (Your chief of staff misses you)

ASIERE OOO, ODA’ RO, SUN’ REREO

The Family of Hon. (Bar.) Friday & Chief (Mrs.) Philomena Peter Udoh (JP)

MY SINCERE CONDOLENCES

I sincerely sympathize with you the demise of your beloved father, the Late Chief Okon Willie Effiong of Nung Ikono in Uruan Local Government Area who transited to eternal glory on the 25th day of August, 2024. Late Chief O. W. Effiong who was the only holder of the title: Obong Adaha Iboku Uruan was a revered community builder and a man imbued with a deeper sense of patriotism. He lived an impactful life and was devoted in his service God and humanity. For these and more, he will be greatly missed.

As the family mourns, I pray the Almighty God to the entire family the fortitude and courage to bear this irreplaceable loss. Please, be consoled by the indelible memories and positive legacies he left behind. accept my sincere condolences and best wishes.

Senator Aniekan Bassey

A TRIBUTE TO MY CHIEF. Oh my chief a true beautiful soul - who deserved my total loyalty. You will live on forever in my heart, and in my mind. I wished everyone should have a friend like you. Some people came into our lives and makes it better, they made days brighter, and the happiness longer. That’s who my chief was to me. I wish I had just one more chance to feel your smile. Deep in my heart, your life is kept to love and cherish, and no more tomorrow we can share, but our yesterday will always be there. Rest softly my Chief safe in the knowledge that I, Americana will never let your memory fade- by keeping the things I have learnt from your life. And so, you will never truly die.

Kufre OKON - ( De Americana )

The news of your demise come as a shock to many. My heart is broken, but I take comfort in the memories we shared when you were alive. You will be deeply missed. May you find peace and joy in the bossom of our Lord. Adieu great man. Rest in peace.

Elder Paul Willie and Family.

The lost that can not be forgotten in a hurry, one life that impacted on so many, one tree that so many ate from, one umbrella that covers many people, whichever way you look at it, he was a great blessing to the entire family, community and our great generation, Goodbye Uncle, stay well at the bosom of Jesus.

It is with deepest sorrow and sadness that I write this tribute to you my Uncle. You were an uncle in a million; you, like your sister, Mma Bassey, my blessed mother, was humble, kind, loving, caring and good in your heart and soul. I remember like yesterday how you never failed to text me every month in the last few years. I also remember how you returned from the USA and ordered us back to school. I can't forget how you brought Americana stuffs to us as gifts. Come rain, come shine you were there with my mum, your sister - Eka Ime, when our father was no more. You were her pillar of support and went where she could not go. We knew she loved you, her brother. You were always around us. My brothers and I whom you always advise will really miss you and your honest fatherly advices. Your sudden death came as a rude shock. We did not expect it and wish we had more time to continue to appreciate you. God in His infinite wisdom knows best. May our Lord comfort and sustain your family, your wife and children now and always. May God Almighty keep you safe resting in perfect peace till resurrection day, Amen.

Adieu My Loving Uncle Okon Willie Effiong

Sally Ekeng & Family.

A Tribute to a Man of Honor!

It is with deep sadness and a heavy heart that I pen this tribute in honor of a man whose presence and influence left an unforgettable mark on my life, Pastor (Chief) Okon Willie Effiong.

Chief, as we fondly called him, was not only my employer; he was a mentor, a friend, and, in many ways, a father figure. He entrusted me with the responsibility of managing his house in Lagos, and through this role, I witnessed firsthand, the depth of his understanding and his commitment to those who worked with him. His diligence and sense of purpose were inspiring, but it was his humanity that truly defined him.

He believed in me when few did, offering support and encouragement at every turn. Against all odds, he stood by me, extending a level of trust that went far beyond a professional relationship. Often, he treated me not only just as one of his lawyers, but also as a son. His care for my family was extraordinary—he took the time to know each of them by name, never failing to ask after their well-being. His genuine concern for our lives made us feel seen, valued, and loved.

Chief Effiong’s support came in many forms—through guidance, kind words, or simply knowing he was there when I needed him most. He was a man who uplifted those around him, offering his compassion freely and selflessly. His ability to connect with others on such a personal level was a testament to the incredible heart he had.

As I reflect on the moments we shared, I am filled with gratitude for the time I spent with Chief Effiong. His legacy is one of kindness, generosity, and unwavering belief in those around him. He touched the lives of many, and I will always carry his memory with me as a reminder of the importance of compassion, understanding, and care for others.

May his soul rest in perfect peace, and may his family find comfort in knowing that his spirit of love and kindness will continue to live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

Rest well, Chief. You will be forever missed by myself, my wife; Joy, the Kids; Michelle and Brian, but never forgotten.

TRIBUTE TO MY VERY OWN MENTOR, FATHER AND TEACHER

You’ve been an absolute inspiration since our path crossed, what more could one ask for if not an accommodating, disciplined, honest and caring boss like you, you took me as your own child and gave me the discipline, love and protection a father could give to a child, you gave me the respect even when we had a big age gap between us,”Oga” as you fondly called me was one way to show how much of a friend you also took me, a disciplinarian and my personal mentor.

Immediately you called me that very morning of your passing, I was overjoyed to know you were getting better, we spoke around 5:36 a.m and you told me to stay good and I kept reminiscing what it meant but I also had a second thought that it’s normal you always ended your calls with “oga, stay good ”.Unfortunately I never knew it was a Different one this time.

Throughout my years of working with you, I have seen you to be a God fearing man who loved to impact in humanity, churches and individuals more than your own self and when you decide to do so you refuse to give up unless you complete it because the order is from your father above. As it is said in 1 Timothy 5:18 About laborers receiving their wages on time, You kept this commandment of God and never in history have you ever cheated your worker or laborer of their pay, you hated debt with everything in you and you forbade any form of debt.

Oh! what a great man you were, at every completed task I can’t count the number of times you kept uttering prayers of blessings “God bless you” to me for a work well done, and how much you kept assuring me that you loved me so much even beyond my mistakes most times, and even with that you kept showering “God bless you” to me still and one statement you kept saying over and over, ”you will not regret working for me”.

Sir, as I always called you, you left me surprisingly forgetting the promises you made to me on our last work trip in Lagos but who am I to question the decision of my father in heaven, only him has his own ways. Words will not be enough for me to express how much I’ve missed you and how much I’m going to miss you for the rest of my life, you’ve occupied a place in my heart and that will remain for as long as I live, that is a promise from me to you.

In all of these, my joy is that your good work on earth and what you told me that morning when we spoke has proven to me that you have truly gone to be with your father in heaven and I have no doubt about it, because what more could one ask for if not such beautiful home to go. Rest on my mentor, though you are gone but part of you still lives in me, and every-time I think of you my heart fills with pride as i know you’re watching over me until we meet again.

YOUR PERSONAL ASSISTANT NSIKAK U. BASSEY

TRIBUTE TO MY ELDER BROTHER

And I heard a voice from heaven saying Write this down . Blessed are those who die in the Lord from now on. Yes says the Spirit, they are blessed indeed, for they shall rest from all their toils and trials; for their good deeds follow them. Rev.14:13 (NLT)

To say that your death was a shock to me is an understatement; but how to nurse the injuries it has inflicted on me is what I am contending with now. Thirty six years of unbroken relationship is not a joke. Thank God for all the gains the union birthed especially bringing us into new life with Christ. Your love to me was amazing. To those that came your way especially your tenants in Aso, the testimony is that you were a true father to them. Strict, firm but humane. To your church, you were a beacon of light,a pillar of hope and sucurrer of the helpless. A rallying point for the advancement of God's work.

Your community will cry their eyes out because they have lost a patriot. Your immediate family has lost the most vital part of them, but I trust God for grace to recover and carry on with the good work you left off. My joy and consolation is that you have found your Maker at last. Rest on there till we meet again to part no more. Just know that the shoe you left behind is too big for us.

Good night, Sir

I came to know Ette, late Chief Okon Effiong Willie three years ago and wished I had known him longer than I did and seen him more than I have seen. This icon was known for his generosity, kindheartedness but very disciplined. Easily forgiving and empathetic for many. Oh, what a great Man you were on earth!

We have not lost you but definitely missed you. You have created a great vacuum in our community, but we take solace in your your philanthropic legacies and impact and share our deepest hearts with the entire family at this time of pain.

Farewell Ette, and rest in the Lord.

CONDOLENCE

We, the Leadership and Membership of Assemblies of God, Uyo East District, received with a heavy heart and a deep sense of loss of the news of the passing unto glory of your husband, father and Minister of the Gospel, the late Pastor Okon Wiilie Effiong.

His times and seasons on this side of life were models of love, compassion and goodwill extended to all, who knew and experienced him in both words and deeds. It was his lives mission to serve his God and propagate His kingdom on earth. Love and assist his wife, children and the Assemblies of God family.

Here lies the remains of the man of God called, tested and tried, yet; who spread his tentacles in empathy for all, provided kindness, succour, and shelter from the storms of life for others without discrimination, prejudice, never judging, never condemning; but in humility, charity in heart and purpose gave himself, his earthly possessions and even death, is an example of what it means to live a simple but worthy life.

Assemblies of God, Uyo East District, mourns you, late Pastor Okon Willie Effiong, indeed, we have lost a gem, a diamond cut by our God, sharpened and sharpened by Him to show forth His glory and to impact lives all for Him.

Let all of us be reminded by his passing that this world is not our home, but we all are pilgrims on a journey to our ancestral home above, Let's be watchful and be careful how we spend our times and seasons here on earth. Our prayer is that may the Good Lord continue to strengthen, guide and console you and your entire family. May He uphold you, give you an enabling grace to bear the challenge of his departure, while we need to emulate his sterling qualities, especially, his passions for souls. Please, accept our heartfelt condolences.

Revd. Bassey Edet Udo District Superintendent

Revd. Joseph Udoh District Secretary

Dearly Beloved.

It is with a deep sense of loss and heartfelt sympathy that the members of AG Wuse, Abuja branch commiserate with you and members of your family over the death of your beloved husband and father.

Late Pastor (Chief) Okon Willie Effiong was indeed a great man of God who impacted greatly in the lives of many through the churches he planted. His reward will be great in heaven. It is obvious that you were very fortunate to have such a fine man as your spouse and role model as you grew into the person you are today.

As you mourn his departure, remember 1 The 4:13-14 "But I would not have you to be ignorant, brethren, concerning them which are asleep, that ye sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him." KJV

We encourage you to take solace in the fact that he lived and died a true child of God and brought up his children in the fear of God. This is a great legacy that will stand the test of time. On that glorious morning, we shall meet to part no more. We pray that the Almighty God will give you all the fortitude to bear this GREAT LOSS. May his gentle soul rest in the bosom of the Lord, Amen.

Deacon Emeka Onyiriuka C hurch Secretary, for the Church

THE MANAGEMENT AND STAFFS OF PACIFIC PARADISE SUITES UYO.

Received the shocking news of the sudden demise of your beloved husband Pastor Chief Okon Willie Effiong, the beloved friend of our chairman, CEO and family. We share in your grief and pray God for strength, good health and the ability to pull through it all. Life is a journey as well as a stage, we are merely players. May his soul rest in perfect peace.

The management

PACIFIC PARADISE SUITES

Cc: The chairman The managing director The director

TRIBUTE TO OUR BENEFACTOR AND MENTOR

Today, we gather to bid farewell to a selfless soul, PASTOR OKON WILLIE EFFIONG of Nung Okwu's family in Nung Ikono Ufok -Uruan, whose life was a testament to kindness, generosity, and devotion.

Your unwavering support and guidance transformed countless lives, including mine, your legacy will continue to inspire us:

A Heart of Gold: Your philanthropy touched the lives of many, providing hope and opportunities.

A Mentor's wisdom: Your counsel and encouragement shaped our dreams and aspirations.

A Leader's Integrity: Your exemplary life demonstrated the power of integrity, compassion, and humility.

A Faithful Servant: Your dedication to God's work inspired a generation.

In our hearts, your memory will live on. In our lives, your legacy will continue, In our community, your influence will endure.

Rest in peace, dear PASTOR (OBONG) OKON WILLIE EFFIONG. Your labour of love has earned you eternal rest

We will miss you, but your spirit will continue to guide us.

Thank you for being a blessing to us all.

MR NAZARETH MICHAEL UDOH HONOURABLE PERSONAL ASSISTANT TO THE GOVERNOR OF AKWA IBOM STATE

CONDOLENCES MESSAGE.

With heavy heart on behalf of DE PETERSON’S family we write to commiserate with you and the entire family on the sudden demise of your husband,LATE CHIEF O.W. EFFIONG .

We share in your grief at this moment of losing a dependable hubby and father of your children. Be assured, His numerous contributions to the upliftment of the family, church, community and anybody who come in contact with him will be forever be remembered.

May his gentle soul rest in peace.
Amen,

MRS IME M. PETERSON (JP). (née IME OKPON).

Dear departed friend Chief Willie( my friends husband/ my late sons Dad best friend)

I will always remember you when you came back from USA with your friend late Eyo Ben, You visited your wife as introduced me to your friend. After that I started dating your friend and I remember you were encouraging him to be firm with decision to settle down as you did. You were always checking on me to know the development. This showed your caring nature.

You were no more as what your wife described you. speaking few words and not joking and playing around. I was there when Esther my friend and you did your traditional marriage. Over your years in Lagos we were always keeping in touch.

I remembered each time our were on work trip to London, where I then reside ,you always make sure you see me, no matter your tight schedule even if for few minutes. Just to know if I was doing okay. This shows how you appreciate your wife's friendship with me.

I want to say farewell and may you rest in the bosom of Abraham keeping watch on us with Angels till Christ bring us together again in resurrection at the last judgement.

From your Commy(then Comfort Obot)

A Tribute to A Great Leader.

Night has descended swiftly, and morning seems distant. Though your tasks, duties, and responsibilities remain, your journey on earth is complete, and the path ahead must be traversed.

The passing of Chief Okon Willie(Adaha Iboku Uruan), has left a profound void in our hearts and our community. A very senior public servant who retired from the Central Bank of Nigeria without blemish. Chief was not just a man of remarkable professional achievement but a beacon of wisdom, integrity, and kindness.

He was a philanthropist of immense heart, a community and Religious leader par excellence, Chief inspired us all with his compassion and visionary leadership. He leaves behind a community forever changed by his example and a legacy that will inspire generations to come.

May God comfort and strengthen his loving wife and family during this difficult time, and may his soul rest in eternal peace.

Signed Barr. Joseph Inyang Okporikpo Police Service Commission, Abuja

He was like a father to me. He was a man of unshakeable morals who told the truth clearly and never compromised his values. He was the glue that held our family together, bringing us closer through his wisdom and strength. His death came as a huge shock, and it is a loss I will feel for a long time. It will be difficult to envision life without him, but I find consolation in the memories we shared. I wish him eternal peace and rest.

Chief Willie Okon Effiong was a man of remarkable hospitality and kindness. His warm, welcoming nature left an indelible mark on all who had the pleasure of knowing him. He was the kind of person who went above and beyond to ensure others felt at home, no matter the circumstances.

I fondly remember when my friends Uche, Meshach, and I visited Uyo for our friend Ikemesit's wedding. Despite being tired, Chief Effiong took it upon himself to be our guide and host. He personally took us around town, showing us various hotels where we could stay. His dedication to our comfort was evident in every action, even though he had no obligation to assist us to such an extent.

Chief Effiong's generosity didn't stop there. He made certain we never went hungry or thirsty during our stay. His attention to our needs and his genuine interest in our well-being exemplified his character as a truly accommodating individual.

It's these acts of kindness and selflessness that we will remember most about Chief Willie Okon Effiong. His ability to make others feel welcome and cared for was unparalleled. The warmth he brought into the lives of those around him will be sorely missed.

As we bid farewell to this exceptional man, we carry with us the memory of his generosity and the example he set for treating others with compassion and care. Chief Willie Okon Effiong will be greatly missed, but his legacy of kindness and hospitality will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

May he rest in peace.

TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER

Chief, as I used to call you still remains evergreen in my mind. I cannot believe myself to see you no more, you were ever ready to protect the interest of many.

Those who met you as being bad when going up surely met you good when coming down.

You bore on one grudges over night, you we're friendly to ever person.

Please take gentle stride and rest in bosom of Abraham.

Owot uko asitua ke usen nnaneyen.

From your junior brother URUA WILLIE.

Board of Elders, Deacons and Deaconesses, Redemption Ground Ministry Inc. No. 6 Nepa Line, Ituk Mbang, Uruan L.GA Akwa Ibom State 25th September, 2024.

Elder Cornelius E. Willie and Family.

MESSAGE OF CONDOLENCE

I write on behalf of Board of Elders, Deacons and Deaconesses .of Redemption Ground Ministry Inc. to condole with you over the demise of your Late brother Pastor Okon Willie Effiong. Your beloved brother was a respectable servant of God, family builder, bridge builder and a community leader who always seeks good things for his community and beyond.

Actually, we can imagine the great sense of loss and void his demise has caused you knowing how close he was to you, and your entire family and your community as a whole. It's our fervent believe that your brother has run his course on this earth and has returned home to rest in the bosom of his maker. Take solace in the word of God in Psalm 116:15 that says, "Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints"

Finally, we share in the grief with you and the entire great family of Willie over this irreplaceable loss. May the Almighty God strengthen and give you the grace to keep moving forward. Please accept our condolences

Elder Okon A. Étim Secretary

CONDOLENCE MESSAGE PRESENTED TO THE FAMILY OF LATE OBONG OKON WILLIE EFFIONG OF NUNG IKONO UFOK, URUAN LOCAL GOVERNMENT AREA.

With deep sense of loss, but with total submission to the will of God. We, the entire members of the Village Council, Ituk Mbang commiserate with your family on the demise of your Son/ Father Late Obong Okon Willie Effiong.

We know, he was a devoted Christian, a loving father, an advocate of peace and justice, a role model and a man of exemplary character who was cherished by all, therefore his departure has created a vacuum in the Family, Church and Community at large.

However, we urge you to be consoled with the word of God in Revelation 14:13.

We therefore pray to God Almighty to grant you the fortitude to bear the irreparable loss, while granting his soul eternal rest. Amen. Adieu Ette.

CHIEF EMMANUÈL EDET BASSEY (JP) Village Head, Ituk Mbang

OBONG OKON EDEM UDOEKONG Village Secretary

OBONG UNWANA NUNG ONKWO, it is unbelievable to us, when we the family of Nung Onkwo received a shock news that you are no more alive with death, it is not an easy task to endure the pains of losing a loving, caringa person like you, a pillar, a pragmatic, a bridge builder, a role model, an arbitrator, a strict disciplinarian, unassuming character and the one whose contributions and invaluable services to the society will be greatly missed.

As Late Obong Unwana (1), Chief Okon Willie Effiong goes home at the age of 70years. The good people of Nung Onkwo family condoled with you and your entire family. We pray God to give you the fortitude to bear this irreplaceable loss, as well as granting his soul eternal rest, Amen.

PASTOR SIMON BASSEY (FAMILY HEAD) MR. BASSEY PRIMUS (ACTING SECRETARY

TRIBUTE TO A MAN OF GREAT CHARACTER

I came to know Chief Okon Effiong as far back as 1994 when we were transferred to Surulere Assemblies of God Church, Lagos. He was a very good friend to my husband. Very cheerful, kindly always want to solve other people’s problems

After the demise of my husband, this wonderful man of God took my family as his own, very supportive and accommodating. Severally, when I traveled to Abuja for my official assignment, it was in their house I always resided. Their home is always my second home in Abuja. He always tell me to feel free in their home. What a wonderful man we suddenly missed just like that? Unfortunately, when the issue of “character” is in the news today, the focus is usually on character failures — lack of integrity, marital unfaithfulness, greed and dishonesty. So to be able to talk about a man of good character is a privilege. Pa Effiong has his family intact, united in the Spirit of Christ. Can you imagine, at his age he went to Bible school in order to effect his impact in the things of the Kingdom.

When thinking about the title of this entry, I was indecisive about whether it should be “To a Great Man of Character” or “To a Man of Great Character”. Obviously, I chose the latter — for two reasons. First, in the world’s eyes I don’t know if Pa Effiong would be characterized as a “great man” — in the general terms of incredible success professionally or in terms of raw talent. Although he was talented in several areas and he was also quite successful in his profession, most who knew Pa Effiong focused on who he was as a person. So, the second reason I chose this title is because almost everyone who knew him would agree he was a man of “great character”. It was his character that impacted others, and most who knew him (including myself) found themselves wanting to emulate him: in love, hospitality and skillfulness.

We can never finished talking about your love to humanity and we know that Heaven has gained you in order to encourage the rest of us that emulating Christ character in the world is a glow of light that shines brighter and brighter everyday. Rest in Peace at the bosom of the Master Jesus Christ while the rest of us here continue with the Lord of Host.

Adieu dear father, Adieu dear brother in Christ, Adieu dear friend. Till the day of resurrection when we shall meet and part no more at the feet of Jesus Christ. Amen

From Pastor Mrs ROMOKE Rachael OJUKWU

Tribute to Late Pastor Okon Willie Effiong.

I knew Pastor Willie Effiong as a great friend and a wonderful Pastor, but one of the things that made me to respect Pastor Effiong was his great love for Soul Winning. In this sense, late Pastor Effiong was a real hero to me. When he relocated to Wuse Church, he studied in Adult Men B which I was the Class Teacher. During one of the October Enlargement Campaigns he told me that our class should work towards winning, in Soul and offering Banners. By God's grace he matched his words with action. It's a difficult task putting this piece down because I recalled my visitation with my wife to his Abuja residence and how we both shared memories even on who should pray in that meeting.

Great Man of God Rest in Peace. Bro. Okezie S.C.

In Loving Memory of My Uncle "My Bestest Uncle "

Uncle, today I reflect on the cherished memories we shared, and my heart aches knowing that you’re no longer here to call me "My Bestest Niece." Who will call me by that name again? Your playful teases, your laughter, and the joy you brought into my life will always be missed. I miss you already.

You were a man of unwavering principles, standing firm in what you believed, no matter whose ox was gored. Your strength and determination were inspiring, and it’s clear that God used you to sustain so many lives. Your support and care provided lifelines to those tied to your apron strings, relying on you for their daily sustenance. I pray that God, in His infinite mercy, will provide comfort and provision for all who depended on you, just as you provided for them.

The entire Willie's dynasty will miss your presence, your wisdom, and the light you brought into our lives. May God grant you eternal rest in His loving arms, where you shall find peace and joy forevermore. Rest well, dear Uncle, until we meet again, in Jesus' name, Amen.

This news came suddenly but God knows best. Uncle was a father to all. Always striving to unite the family, willing to assist those in need. I will always remember how you stood by us during trying times. You will always be remembered. We love you. Sleep well Uncle.

A TRIBUTE IN HONOUR OF OUR DEPARTED UNCLE AND FATHER - IN LAW: Dear Sir, as we normally called you, your untimely demise has left a great vacuum and a deep void in our hearts, your passing has swept us off our balance, as we have been jolted to that conclusion that you are gone.

 It's really a great irony that good things don't last even as "GOOD PEOPLE" of which you can rightly be described as one, don't also last.

As our beloved Uncle and Father In - law, you were just more than a Family Light, that shone brighter and illuminated our paths, you were indeed a great PILLAR, MOTIVATOR, MENTOR, CONFIDANT, ENCOURAGER, TORCH-BEARER and a HELPER par excellence.

  Your guidance, wise counsel and the unwavering supports in all ramifications possible were second to none and very invaluable and we are eternally grateful to you.

    The Guidelines and life coach directives we got from you and followed religiously till date, have helped to shape our lives, to self reliant persons we are today, may God Almighty bless your soul.

  Dear Uncle, those laughter - filled gatherings, closer family reunions, highly cerebral and wisdom - filled conversations, the life focusing lessons we learnt from you as well as the unconditional love, generosity and constant encouragements, you showed, are legacies, we will continue to cherish for ever.

  Your life as a whole, was exemplary and a great inspiration, to us all as the family members, people of the Community and the Church of God, where you invested a good chunk of your resources and planted while alive.

  We pray, may your good works for both humanity and the untiring efforts at propagating the Gospel, speak for you on  that Resurrection Morning.

  Uncle, we really miss you but we are taking consolation in the fact that, you came, persevered, struggled, rose, excelled, led a good life, fought a good fight and have left a good name, which is priceless for posterity.

   Rest on Uncle, till we will meet again, to part no more. 

    "Sanga sung Obong Uforo nyin tutu nyin ifiak isobo ke ubok nnasia Akwa Abasi Ibom", Sir Esiere - o.

-  FROM PATIENCE/JOHN OBOT:

CONDOLENCES: IN HONOR OF LATE PASTOR (CHIEF) OKON WILLIE EFFIONG. 1954-2024

CONDOLENCES I and my entire family commiserate with you and all the members of your family on the passing of our dearly beloved Pastor (chief) Okon Willie Effiong.

Chief's exemplary conduct in the public and private spheres of his endeavors was formidable on his love and devotion to God Almighty and his respect to all.

We are sad that he is no more with us but we will always be comforted by the warm thought of him which we hold dear and cherish, we give glory to God for the zeal and joy he always has and the kindness and generosity he showed to all. We will all miss him sorely

We are proud of the legacy he left in you his worthy children and grandchildren.

Above all, we give thanks to God for the life of a man you were I am so proud to call you my co-inlaw, the unique, the complex, the extraordinary and irreplaceable man Willie Effiong whose beauty both internal and external will never be extinguished from our mind. May his soul continue to rest in perfect peace. Amen

Your Co-inlaw Sam Usanga & Family

TRIBUTE TO MY UNCLE

Sir, as I used to call you still remains evergreen in my heart. I can't believe what happens on that fateful day, in the morning was going to make a difference.

I remember when you always called me -Oga promise - I'll answer you yes sir, I remember when you call me by my name Promise i answered yes sir looking into your eye you said to me PROMISE YOU ARE GONE TO GLORY. you didn't make it clear to me that it's was going to be soon You forever remains in my heart as a mentor, chancellor, great teacher,

I accept the facts that the Bible says that there's a Time for everything, but the pains still remains in my heart, your legacy I will never forget your love for me and they relationship we heard will forever remains in my heart.

Farewell Uncle may your soul rest in peace.

Your nephew Promise Solomon willie

TRIBUTE TO A RARE GEM

There are places within our heart that can only be filled with memories. And there are places in our souls that can only be healed by gentle hands of time. I missed you daddy dearest. You made me feel right at home from the very first day we met, your love and acceptance greatly eased my mind, you welcomed me with open arms and those memories will always live within me. You were a great mentor, an advocate and a motivator, I'll for ever be grateful for all your encouragements, prayers and supports. Your existence was real, rare and resilient. Also in there was a beautiful heart, a good man that had love, care and concern towards family thriving. I feel like your last moments with us was God's orchestrated because we bonded, we learnt al ot and embraced new ideas, it was a beautiful moment. You loved my husband, I and the kids dearly and this will always remain evergreen in our hearts.

Rest in peace daddy dearest, I'll sure miss that name NWAN" in your voice, the hypes and all of that. You worked hard and loved well. And you'll forever be cherished and remembered.

On behalf of the Executive Officers and the Entire Members of Nung Ikono Ufok Village, we wish to convey our heartfelt condolences to members of the family over the transition of CHIEF OKON WILLIE EFFIONG. Inspite of the fact that death has been from time immemorial and will continue to be a necessary end to all mortals, man has never been able to imagine the pains it inflicts on the families when a resourceful person is gone.

LATE CHIEF OKON WILLIE EFFIONG has made various contributions to the development of his family, Village, Uruan Inyang Atakpor LGA, Akwa Ibom State and Nigeria in general, by building family Town Hall, Village Town Hall and the Churches to mention but a few. His death therefore, is a loss to his families, Communities, Uruan LGA and Akwa Ibom State.

We share with you the pains of his demise and the sadness experience of losing him. We urge you all to take consolation the promise of the Lord that one day all those who died in the Lord Almighty God, will be gathered at where they will see each other, to part no more.

May the Almighty God grant the immediate family, Village and Uruan LGA in general, the grace to bear this irreplaceable loss!

God bless you all.

CHIEF JOSEPH A. ESSIEN (VILLAGE HEAD, NUNG IKONO UFOK) CHIEF C. E. OKON (SECRETARY, COUNCIL OF CHIEFS)

A TRIBUTE TO A SELFLESS UNCLE/FATHER!

Uncle, you came, you saw, and you conquered. Out of nothing, you created "everything". When I was informed that you had passed on, the first five minutes was the longest moments of my life. To say the least, I was speechless. Well! (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Thank God that I and my family spent close to three months with you out of the last three and a half months of your life. But honestly, I didn't know that was the last.

Your vision to be world class and your ambition to conquer greater heights and break new grounds and live above the common standards of excellence are values we emulate. Daddy was a complete family man. Your belief in the importance of the family and the family system was outstanding.

Even the greatest football player of all time, with eight (8) Ballon d'Or award, Lionel Messi is having a replacement at FC Barcelona. Thus, the big question is; who will replace YOU in the family? You were one in a million. Your passing on has left a very big vacuum that will be extremely difficult for anyone of us in the family to fill. Who will be so compassionate to all? Who will carry everybody along? Who will be there for everyone? (Who go the carry everybody matter for head? Who go be the "busybody" of the family?)

Your love, kindness, compassion, caring nature, bravery, and all the good virtues will forever be cherished and remembered. God bless your soul. Daddy, you may have gone, but you will forever remain in our hearts. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace - Amen.

Esiere eti owo ekong! Esiere ete mme ete!! Esiere mentor per excellence!!!

Today, I celebrate the life and legacy of Chief O. Effiong, a remarkable individual whose impact on our lives and community will never fade.

Chief O. Effiong was more than just a family friend; he was a shining example of devotion. His faith in God guided his step.

Chief O. Effiong’s love for his community was palpable. He dedicated his life to serving and uplifting those around him, leaving an indelible mark on the lives he touched. His tireless efforts to make a difference have created a lasting legacy.

To the entire family, I offer our deepest condolences. May the memories of Chief O. Effiong's love, laughter, and legacy comfort you during this difficult time.

As we bid farewell to this extraordinary individual, we take solace in the knowledge that his spirit lives on through the countless lives he touched. May his selflessness, compassion, and devotion continue to inspire us all.

Rest in peace, Chief O. Effiong. Your impact will never be forgotten.

I came into contact with Mr. Effiong during our retirement in 2014 and since them We spent time together. Mr Effiong was a friend and worked for the Lord and community . My wishes for him that he will rest in the Lord . Good bye till we meet again.

It is an honor to write this tribute to Chief Okon Willie Effiong - a friend, co-inlaw, husband, respectful father, and beloved friend. I first met him just as I started initiating my marriage; he acted as a father to my dear wife. His knowledge of marriage and family matters and acceptance of my requests made the beginning of our incredible journey to where we are today!

We were shocked and saddened when we heard that he was no more. Death has taken away a genuinely warm individual and, more importantly, a loving husband and father and deprived so many others, including us all, of a good friend and co-inlaw.

While we mourn the loss of a great father, we pay tribute and celebrate a life that was well lived in the fear of God and his contribution to building the church for worshipping God. This is a challenging and painful time for the family. We extend our condolences and wish them courage and strength to bear this irreparable loss.

We want to say farewell to you in your journey to eternity, Chief Okon Willie Effiong ; you will be in our hearts and memories. It was a privilege to have been a part of your life!

A Heartfelt Eulogy to My Beloved Uncle.

Words can scarcely express the depth of sorrow that overcame me upon hearing of your passing. It felt like the world shifted in an instant, and the grief was almost unbearable, especially because we spoke just a week before. I still find it hard to believe that you are no longer with us.

Uncle, your love, kindness, and generosity were like a guiding light in my life. You had an extraordinary way of making everyone feel valued and supported, never once turning your back when I needed you. Your constant encouragement, wise counsel, and the endless hope you instilled in me remain treasures I will carry forever. You weren’t just my uncle; you were my mentor, my confidant, and my steady source of strength.

I am deeply grateful for all the times you stood by me. You taught me invaluable lessons not just through words, but through the way you lived, your compassion, your humility, and your selflessness. Your life was a reflection of true love and service, a legacy that will forever live in the hearts of those fortunate enough to have known you.

Though it is hard to accept, I take comfort in knowing that God's ways are higher than ours. As the Bible says in Ecclesiastes, "There is a time for everything, a time to live and a time to die." While your time here has come to an end, I trust in the hope of eternity, where we shall meet again in the resurrection morning.

Uncle, though you're no longer physically present, your spirit, love, and the lessons you imparted will remain etched in my heart. You will always be with me, in the quiet moments and the milestones yet to come. I will miss you deeply, but I am comforted by the knowledge that you are resting peacefully in God's care.

Rest on, dearest uncle, until we meet again. Your memory will forever be a blessing. Sang sungooooo.

Your niece,
Inimfon S. Willie

The Lord sees, knows and understands all concerning His children. May you, your children and family be consoled and strengthened. You must allow it and you will be lifted up far above any enemy. Now, be above by the power of the holy Spirit. He will for sure see you through in Jesus name. Amen.

A Tribute to my In law , A great disciplinarian, Pastor (Chief) Okon Willie Effiong.

I hope this message find you in peace and surrounded by love in heaven, I want you to know that even though you have left this world, you will always hold a special place in my heart. I am grateful for the love and wisdom you impacted on me to become who I am today , but I find comfort in knowing that you are at peace and free from pain of this world.

Rest on Sir till we meet to part no more. Grace Mma .

Heartfelt Tribute to A Great Inlaw

The passing of Chief O. W. Effiong our dear brother-in-law, uncle, and friend, has left a void in our hearts that can never be filled. He was a man of kindness, wisdom, and quiet strength, and his presence in our lives was a gift we will forever cherish.

Chief touched each of us in unique ways—whether it was through his warm smile, his words of encouragement, or his unwavering support. He had a way of making those around him feel valued and loved, and his legacy of compassion will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.

As we mourn his loss, we also choose to celebrate the beautiful life he lived. His dedication to his family, his faith, and his community is an inspiration to us all. Though he may no longer be with us in person, his spirit will continue to guide and uplift us, reminding us to live each day with the same grace and humility that he embodied.

To his beloved family, please know that we are with you in this difficult time. Our prayers are with you, and may God grant you the strength to bear this great loss. Let us find comfort in the memories we shared with Him, and hold onto the love that unites us all.

With love and deepest sympathy,

Elder Ime Udo and family

TRIBUTE TO MY IRREPLACEABLE BROTHER

Brother, my oga, I still can't understand why you choose to leave us at this time that we needed you most. The sad news of your death has caused deep pain and sorrow in our heart which make it difficult for us to bid you farewell. We cannot question God on why He has allowed you leave us now when you have not reaped the fruit of your labour. You were such a caring, loving, accommodating and strong supporting brother and uncle who try to build the foundation of The Willie's Dynasty in order to project the image of our Late father.

Peaceful man with a good heart who love helping people. We miss you very much, your word of advice. You have fought and battled with sickness and struggled to survive but sickness and death couldn't let go. Oh death, where is your sting? Oh grave! Where is your victory? Brother, may your soul have rest and perfect peace in the bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

ELDER ETIM WILLIE YOUR BROTHER

A TRIBUTE TO A BELOVED UNCLE! It is with a heavy heart and sorrow that we write this tribute in honour of our beloved uncle, Chief Okon Willie Effiong. We take solace in knowing that you have gone to take your place in the right hand side of the Almighty Father, - for you fought a good fight, and left a good name.

You were the closest person to our late father. You were not only just his brother, but his friend, and close confidant. You inspired and impacted each and everyone of us in so many ways. You were a beacon of wisdom, integrity, generosity, and kindness.

Uncle was strict and highly disciplined, but with a very good sense of humor. We will miss you, but you will forever remain in our hearts.

May your soul rest in perfect peace - Amen.

Adieu the lion of Nung Onkwo!

Death is an all powerful phenomenon, too powerful and too mysterious for human comprehension. This is so because dead is the last part of life and life itself is a mystery. There is no formula for cheating dead, otherwise my friend would have done that.

Continue to rest in the Bossom of the Almighty.

Tribute To MY BELOVED UNCLE

The term death is something that nobody on earth can predict, that is the reason I described it to be inevitable to every mortal creature. Today, I am here to witness the great hero who is transferred to another realm of life.

My uncle your pieces of advice to everyone that came your way with a clear and open door policy, which is full of principles. In the History of life in our modern society my uncle lives an exemplary life, which sustained him and others in his circle of lifespan.

Obong Unwana, if someone can escape death, I am quite sure that through much prayers and medical assistance, you would not have travelled so soon. But so far, it is a divine call, one must accept without question or delay.

May your soul rest in peace, Amen! Obong Unwana Asiere

UTIBE EFFIONG WILLIE (YOUR NEPHEW)

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED FRIEND

Oh, Okon Willie, as you were fondly called and you were a very good friend of mine. We grew up together and attended the famous St. Finbarrs College, Yaba, Lagos at the wake of the Nigeria/Biafra Civil War in 1967.

Memories of his life speak of him as a disciplined and dedicated man who impacted positively on his children, family and the society at large. His Christian life and times are worthy of emulation and celebration.

Nevertheless, his family and close associates will continue to miss the exciting and rewarding moments of his wise counseling and support. My prayers and fond memories are all I and my family have to remember my dearly departed friend and brother in the faith.

As we bid him farewell, we ask God to give him eternal rest in His kingdom. May God also grant the family the fortitude to bear the irreplaceable loss-Amen.

Da Willie, may your soul rest in perfect peace.

Elder/Deaconess Patrick Eyo Ekanem.

TRIBUTE TO LATE PASTOR (Chief) OKON WILLIE EFFIONG.

A Great man of Substance and Integrity.

We should be consoled in the many successes he recorded while his life lasted. The great thing in this world is not how much wealth we possess. But in what Direction we are moving and how much lives we have positively impacted.

Elder Effiong (as I usually call him) lived his life in such a manner to impact positively those that had the privilege of coming across him while he was alive. He is a man of few words, great affection and positive impact. We pray for mommy Esther OKON Effiong and the Children for divine grace and consolation from God Almighty.

May his departed soul rest peacefully in the bosom of our Lord.

From, Charles and Tina Okorie, for the family.

TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED BROTHER

There is no search for words combination to express my feeling when I heard the distress call which I never expected.

When I called and asked about you, you always said, “I am fine and strong”, not knowing it was not true. I was overturned and shocked to the nerves and I couldn’t hold myself nor tears when I came to know that you are dead.

You came to Calabar when my marriage failed and brought me down here to Uyo, built a house for me to stay with you. Financially and morally backed by our eldest brother, you provided for my monthly upkeep and gave me a hope and a pride. Knowing that I had you for a brother empowered and energized me to go about life with the boldness of a lioness and feeling like I could confront or face anything in this world. But now, see how you have left me alone.

Udo eka mmi, you were my umbrella in the family and everywhere you found yourself. You were a comforter, a man of evangelism, lover of all, having pity for all, giver to all, a man of judgment, settler of quarrel, builder of houses for many - even built churches for God in different villages together with parsonages, putting equipments. As God has been using you, you went to Bible Colleges with your wife when you retired from the bank for purpose of knowing and experiencing God more.

On that faithful day, you told your Personal Assistant to withdraw money and pay tithe to the five churches so to make account. You brought electric light to our village. Asked by youths, you supported them. Asked by women, you supported them. You were all in all in the village and the family. You were a bold and strong man. You are such a rare gem, loving brothers and sisters. You shared what you had with everybody. When I realize that I have lost such a brother to the cold hands of death, I feel sad that this life has no duplicate. How you died the same date with your mother and buried the same date with your mother is a mystery I cannot explain but only God can resolve. I lost such a great brother. Well, you have fought a good fight of faith and finished the course.

As said in your last words, “I’m gone to glory”, before you breathe off, who am I to question God? With heavy heart, I say goodbye till we meet to part no more. Rest in peace, my beloved brother and dearest confidant. We love you but the creator loves you best.

Your Dearest Sister, Kate Willie Effiong

"A TRIBUTE TO MY BROTHER

Oga, you were born a HERo, and you are now gone a hero. veni vidi vici. (you came you saw and you conquered). farewell uko owo. Ifia that is how you used to call me."

TRIBUTE TO OUR BELOVED UNCLE, LATE PASTOR CHIEF OKON WILLIE EFFIONG

It is with deepest sorrow and sadness that I, on behalf of my brothers and family, write this tribute to honour of our departed Uncle, Pastor Chief Okon Willie Effiong, the Adaha Iboku Uruan. He was a one in a million uncle. Like his sister, my mother, Mma Bassey of blessed memory, Chief was kind, loving, caring and good at heart and soul.

Remembering like yesterday, Chief would not, in the last few years, fail to text every month. It is significantly memorable how when Chief returned from the USA, he ordered us back to school. We cannot also forget how he brought Americana stuffs to us as gifts.

When our father was no more, our uncle was always there for our mother, his beloved sister, come rain, come shine. He was her pillar of support and went where she could not go. The name, Eka Ime was as common on his lips as grass on a lawn and we knew she loved him too not just as her brother but also as a confidant. Chief also generously extended the love he had for our mother to us and was dearly loved by us too. Chief was one life that impacted on so many. He was one tree that so many ate from and one umbrella that covered many. However or whichever way anyone would look at it, he was a great blessing to our entire family, community and generation.

His sudden death came as a rude shock as we had no slightest intimation that life could take such a wrong turn and so soon. Indeed, we had wish we had more time to continue relating with and appreciating our departed uncle and father. My brothers and I will greatly miss his love, care and honest fatherly advices. This is a loss that will not be forgotten in a hurry. Well, God in His infinite wisdom knows best. May our good Lord comfort and sustain his wife, children, grandchildren and all of us he has left behind, now and always.

And may God Almighty keep the departed safely resting in perfect peace till the resurrection day. Amen.

Adieu, Our Loving Uncle Okon Willie Effiong!

TRIBUTE TO A FATHER FIGURE(DADDY)… Chief 𝑂𝑘𝑜𝑛 Willie Effiong.

The news of your death came as a shock to me and still irreconcilable as imagination of seeing you here on earth is impossible after the last time of our meeting still stuck in my head I know you have found rest as you always talk about your death and I believe your soul has found eternal rest… my daddy even at death I still love you and I pray mummy found a large heart to bear this great fortitude as heaven has gained you to itself at last. Sleep well daddy till will meet in the bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ where all sorrow and burden ends.

Favour, Your Daughter as you always call me❤️

TRIBUTE TO LATE CHIEF OKON WILLIE

Suddenly, I have the dolorous duty of paying tribute to you, Chief Okon Willie. It is difficult to know what to say as we remain dumbfounded since after your demise. Death is indeed inevitable.

It is sad you are gone cause you were endowed with so much talents that wherever you found yourself, you were sure of breaking out of the mould and excel. But just has God did with Paul the Apostle, He had reserved the best part of Chief Okon Willie life for himself as He has called him to be a labourer in His vineyard. The parallel between Chief Okon Willie, Christ ambassador to humanity and Apostle Paul, Christ ambassador to the Gentiles are indeed very striking.

• They were both people of great passion and whatever they undertook to do they did with passion and total commitment.
• They were both people of great erudition and learning. His learning and erudition were tools in God’s hands for transforming the world for Christ.

At this age, Chief Okon Willie life may not be considered long in terms of years, but it was certainly tall in terms of achievements. He left his footprints in all area of human endeavours. True to what Henry Wadsworth Longfellow’s poem “A psalm of life” tell us “Lives of great men all remind us, We can make our Lives sublime, And departing leave behind us, Footprints on the sands of time”

I rest my case on Philipians 3:20 “For our citizenship is in heaven from which we also eagerly wait for the Saviour, the Lord Jesus Christ” (NKJV). I believe gap is already reserved for you as I speak, but given his extensive intervention and services to humanity, there is no doubting the fact that Chief Okon Willie will be sorely missed, we only appreciate the fact that his legacies live on. While praying that his gentle soul rest in peace, we beseech the good Lord to grant the family the fortitude to bear this great loss. Rest on Chief Okon Willie.

PASTOR V. E. ABIA AND FAMILY

"A TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED LATE ELDER PASTOR OKON WILLIE EFFIONG

Death as we all know is an inevitable end to all mortals. According to Ecl. 3:1 ""In everything there is a season, a time to born and a time to die"" since it is a call from God you should not delay in answering.

My beloved Elder, I started missing you right from the day I received the news of your demise. You used to entertain us well especially when we appear in your presence, you were a kind and a good adviser, you loved everybody and lived peacefully with all. You left uncommon legacy on earth which signified your good work.

I say may the God almighty grant you perfect rest in the bossom of Abraham, Amen.

Rev. Anthony Effiong Etim."

"TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED FRIEND LATE ELDER PASTOR OKON WILLIE EFFIONG

MY beloved friend, you were a man I loved and everybody wished to have you as a friend. You were a man that showed kindness and Mercy to your people and outside the community but death has no respect for anybody, you were always there for me and the entire family as well. I believe that it is the will of the Almighty God to call you out of this world and accord you eternal rest.

May the Almighty God grant you eternal rest and may the good Lord give your family the grace to bear this painful departure.

Rtd. Supol Joseph Akpan Ukim."

Obong! My friend's husband as I fondly call you, it is so difficult to write or say anything at this point in time. The news of your demise came as a shock to me. When the phone rang and I picked it up,that was the least thing I expected to hear .

Be that as it may, an ardent believer in God you were and he knows why He has decided to call you home now to His eternal glory.

Eccl 3:1-2a says To every thing there's a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. "A time to be born and a time to die."

Obong! you were a loving husband to my friend and a doting father to your children. A very strong pillar in every letter of the word to your family.

You were a very intelligent man. A great leader with. Profound wisdom.

A man with a very high level of integrity, and discipline, a lover of God and mankind, very kind hearted and empathetic.

Thank You for having accepted me as part of the family, to the extent of giving me a room and forbidding any other person to stay in Mayen's room.

Always hyping me as 'My wife's friend that they have never quarreled for a second ' I jealous your friendship. Thank You for the unforgettable memories I shared with you and your family . You will be sorely missed by all who had the privilege of coming in contact with you. May your gentle soul rest well in peace with the Lord, until we meet on the resurrection morning.

Adieu Obong !

I miss you Greatly,

Mayen Ayong

A TRIBUTE TO A MAN OF HONOUR; AN EPITOME OF INTEGRITY; A DEFENDER OF THE DEFENCELESS AND A TREASURED FATHER

The task of telling the life story of Late Pastor (Chief) Okon Willie Effiong is a herculean one. Where do we begin and where do we stop?

However, it suffices to say that Late Pastor (Chief) Okon Willie Effiong was a great man during his lifetime. He was honest, transparent and liberal in his dealings with people. Besides being diligent and indefatigable, he was quite humble and respectful.

Late Pastor (Chief) Okon Willie Effiong was a man who openly condemned injustices and dishonesty. He exhibited patience and courage in handling matters and was never lacking in giving impartial judgement on contentious issues.

Late Pastor (Chief) Okon Willie Effiong was a wise leader, a defender of the defenseless, a philosopher of the inner temple and a compendium on matters touching the welfare of his family. He never shirked his responsibilities whether assigned or otherwise, especially on matters affecting his family. This same love he extended to all who had any personal relationship with him. He touched and transformed many lives while alive,

“ADAHA IBOKU URUAN”, as he is fondly called, was a man of dignity. He will be greatly missed by his family, friends, associates. Oh! We have lost a MAN OF ACTION; THE UMBRELLA OF THE HELPLESS; A DEFENDER OF JUSTICE; THE CONNERSTONE OF THE FAMILY; A TREASURED FATHER; AN AMIABLE KINSMAN; and A FRIEND OF EVERY MOMENT. His death has left an indelible gap not only in his immediate family, but also in the state at large.

Although your death has dealt hard blows on us; although your earthly toils and prospects seems to be punctuated; and although the cool hands of death has mercilessly turned your face away from your loving family, friends and loved ones; we earnestly pray that your gentle soul finds peaceful repose in the bossom of the Almighty God. We equally trust God to grant the entire family and acquaintances you have left behind, the fortitude to bear this colossal loss.

Adieu, our beloved father, Adieu most respected man of honour.

Innocent Patrick For Patrick Umoh’s family

CHIEF OKON WILLIE'S COMPOUND ITUK MBANG ALONG ADADIA ROAD

(09-10-2024)

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We're extremely saddened to know about the demise of your beloved husband, father and friend thereby rendering you virtually alone.

Man has come down to this world alone and will leave alone. This is the inexorable law of nature and we have to muster all strength and fortitude to counter this unavoidable challenge of life. Under the circumstances, you have to face the challenge with courage/ strength and determination.

In your present predicament you must not lose heart. You have of course to carry the reminiscence of deeds of your beloved husband which cannot be obliterated from your mind so soon.

In the present situation of yours we have nothing but to give you solace, we pray to God to bestow you all strength and energies to smoothen the adverse situation confronting you now arising out of the demise of your beloved husband. At the end, it is our prayer to the Almighty that He gives peace and tranquility to the departed soul of your husband in his heavenly abode.

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Yours truly,

(Your Tenants)

LETTER OF CONDOLENCE.

It is with great sadness that we received the news of the passing of your beloved husband, father, grandfather, and uncle, Chief. For us as humans, it can be difficult to understand or explain why such things happen.

We wish to express our heartfelt condolences for your loss. We mourn alongside you and your entire family during this difficult time.

We hope that the fond memories you have of him will help ease your grief. Please be assured that the late Chief Okon Willie is now resting with the Lord.

May the God of comfort uphold you and your family, and may the soul of the late Chief Okon Willie rest in eternal peace. Amen.

With deepest sympathy, Richard Eyo

Chairman, InfoShield Technologies

"On behalf of the family of the late Mr. M.U. Udoh of Awa Iman, Onna LGA of Akwa Ibom State, I write to sympathize with your family over the loss of your beloved husband Obong Okon Willie Effiong.

There is no doubt that the date of one’s husband and father is an indescribably painful and agonizing experience, and this explains why we deeply share in the sorrow and agony you are passing through in this period. He is obviously a big loss not just to your family, but to a whole lot of people. After all, it is on record that your husband/father was an amazing man who touched so many lives with his amazing lifestyle. Painful as it is to lose a loving husband, father be consoled that he lives behind indelible legacies on the sand of time for us to emulate such as humility, hard work, intelligence and perseverance in the service of God and humanity.

Kindly accept our deepest condolence while being consoled with the word from the scriptures as written in the book of 2 Corinthians 1:3-4: ""Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to comfort those who are in any affliction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.""

Nevertheless, the God of Widows, the father of orphans, who knows the end from the beginning is able to protect you and supply all your needs. Therefore, let us mourn like people with hope for the resurrection day, we shall all meet again to part no more. It is in this regard that we urge to be consoled, even as we pray to the Almighty God to grant the departed soul true peace in this eternal Kingdom."

"Tribute to My Esteemed Co-inlaw

Your sudden departure leaves a void in our lives, but your legacy of love, kindness, and wisdom remains.

As my husband's brother-in-law, you were more than just a relative; you were a guiding light, a source of encouragement, and a shining example of familial love.

Your unwavering support and affection towards me were unparalleled. You never joked when we met; you showered me with warmth and sincerity.

Your counsel to my family to build a boys' quarter, no matter the challenges, will forever be cherished. Your foresight and generosity inspired us to strive for better.

But what touched my heart most was how you treated my mother-in-law like your own biological mother. Every visit to Uyo was an opportunity to spoil her with fresh fish and other gifts. Your thoughtful gestures brought joy to her heart, and mine.

Your famous phrase, ""One son-in-law that surpasses seven in-laws,"" still resonates in my heart. You embodied the spirit of unity and togetherness.

We will deeply miss you, dear Co-inlaw, but your memory will continue to inspire us. Your impact on our lives will never fade.

Rest in peace, dear one. Your legacy lives on in our hearts."

TRIBUTE TO OUR FOSTER FATHER

TRIBUTE TO OUR FOSTER FATHER

You have shown us that family is not just about biological, same ethnicity but about love, care and commitment. You've been a mentor, rock, and true father- figure in every sense of the word. Many thanks for being an extraordinary foster father. We love and appreciate you more than words can express.

Sleep on daddy till we meet to part no more on the resurrection morning.

DR OYENIYI & FAMILY.

LETTER OF CONDOLENCE

Dear Mrs. Effiong,

With rude shock and deep sense of loss, we the Akwacross Community in the Nigerian Security printing and Minting Plc (MINT) Abuja Chapter received the news of the death of youra husband (Pastor/Chief OKON WILLIE EFFIONG).

We use this medium to console with you and your family on the demise, We pray that, the Almighty God grant you and the family the fortitude to bear this great loss and comfort all associated with him in this unpleasant time.

May God Almighty grant his soul perfect rest in our lord Jesus Christ, Amen. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family always. Please accept our heartfelt condolences

Patrick Okon President (Akwa Cross Community Mint-Abuja)